I would share this on FB if I could but because it has been deactivated, I guess my blog would be the next best place to share this.

Came across this blog, written by the mother of an anorexic girl. Dont ask me why but my heart goes all out to her.. it was a battle that spanned over a few years and i am glad to know in her recents posts that her daughter is doing much better than two years back. One thing i must say is that her daughter is very lucky to have a mother like her. Hope that she will be restored to health as soon as possible. Do take a look at the blog.. great insight for anyone knowing someone suffering from anorexia. http://anorexiamummy.blogspot.com/2009/10/sufferers-say.html

I'm not as dumb as you think. :)

A healthy start to the day really does make a difference to how you live your life.

Thank you for making me run around chasing flying discs and running around like a mad dog. Really lifted my day.

女人只要管好自己已经很了不起，干吗要去管男人呢？听话的男人不​用管，不听话的男人，要管也管不到，对你好的男人不用管，对你不​好的男人，不会让你管， 爱你的男人不用管，不爱你的，轮不到你管。

Shopping + Mamak

Just back from a day of shopping at Berjaya Times Square. In case you are not aware, Berjaya is the place to buy lots and lots of pretty clothes at extremely shocking low prices, but of course there is a catch to this. Most of the shops do not allow you to try the clothes. So if you fall for any of the clothes, it is the case of take it or leave it. Most dresses come quite cheap.. usually not exceeding RM40, and averaging at RM25. If only I know where to get the stock from, I might just start a blogshop too lol! Nah, but all this is just in my dreams. XD

Anyway just for the fun of it, I thought i would post some of the stuff I bought today.

First buy (pic below) is a horizontal striped blue and white dress for RM25.

Also bought the belt for RM10. Both from a shop called Trendy. Nice place to buy dresses. Wanted to buyu another one but managed to control myself.Next, was a lacy sleeveless top, RM19 from SQ Fashion. Personally felt it was quite expensive for a sleeveless top but all was forgiven when I tried it on and it fit me just right. (Please keep in mind that most shops have a policy of "no trying", so you will heave a sigh of relief each time a piece of clothing you buy actually looks good on you when you finally try it at home).

If you notice, I am also wearing a red belt. This is my favourite buy of today... RM12.90 for this lovely red belt. Bought two belts from Fortune. This red one and the black one in the picture below. Three quarter jeans was bought at some random shop in One Utama some time ago. :)

Black belt for RM14.90. Pink top bought from Bali.

Wish I bought more dresses but I didnt want to end up buying stuff that only look good on mannequins. Might buy more dresses next time, when I am more seasoned with picking clothes that flatter me body.

Mamak session with OMB buddies tonight. Second outing together to bid Khai Hoe farewell.. The boy is going to NUS.

The Pain Strikes Again

The doctor says I'm perfectly fine, and I dont wanna insist on having an imaginary disease so I dont question her diagnosis. But this morning, I woke up, as per usual almost every month, with the same debilitating pain. I find it a little difficult to accept that there is no explanation for this pain, and for the other many little pains I suffer along with it.

I will just have to be patient and see how this progresses over the next few months.

For the people who know that i have gotten myself an attachment, the question that most of you ask is how is it? I have only been on the job for three days now but what i have been to exposed to is something that cannot simply be gotten anywhere else.

As the cases i am most often exposed to is related to family law, (which is almost synonymous to divorce cases), it has made me wonder whether there is any truly happy marriage in this world. Tens or twenty couples go to court in a single day to petition for a divorce. And the ones i have seen mostly breakdown because of third parties. Why is all this happening?

A few years, or even a few months back, I believed that marriage is a pure and wholesome ceremony.. a union to bind two people in love legally, so they can live their life together as one. When they undergo the wedding ceremony, they undertake a vow to love each other in health or in sickness, in good times and bad. But why? Why are they divorcing a decade into the marriage? And for some, they wait until they are old enough to have grandchildren then they divorce. I understand.... some people just arent meant to be together. But doesnt the fact that you have spent a substantial amount of time with this man/woman mean anything to you? Dont you feel special to have shared a large chunk of your life with this person whom you call your spouse? Why cant people appreciate who they are with, and even when times are hard, still work at it and DONT give up?

Maybe the answer is because... people change. And when people change, the circumstances change. On the day they married, they were in love. They were ready to build a family together. But a few big fights and countless minor arguments later, they decide they dont love each other anymore. One party might or might not stray. Even if they dont start meeting other better potential spouses, the distance between the married couple starts to grow apart.

I just dont get it. When either party is too controlling, the unfaithful one will blame the other half for being too possessive and controlling. That the other half didnt give him/her enough breathing space in which made them commit an affair. And when the other spouse is too laid back, the unfaithful one just as conveniently blames them for being too cold, uncaring, and lacking in love and warmth. Oh come on... it is your choice!!! If you realise you dont love a person, you should just come clean or else, make an effort to rekindle those feelings again! After all you did love this person, once upon a time. So many things are at stake... your life, your property, you children, your family, your entire life and not to forget, your spouse's life who was cheated on by you! And you are letting it all go down the drain, just because you two had one fight too many and you think there are better fishes out in the water. Please think carefully....!

Sigh... sorry if anything i said has offended anyone.

It is just that seeing all these sad things happening in life, i feel very hot and flustered. I feel so sorry for all those people who have had their dreams shattered, just because their other half didnt believe that their relationship could work as much as they believed in it. Or maybe, i just feel plain disappointed at how much everyone is taking each other granted for in life, including myself.

A final messsage, i hope you know the blessings in your life. And dont just appreciate it when they are gone. Because i know how it feels and it sucks big time. Dont let your blessings slip away without appreciating it fully. Nothing is permanent in life, what matters is how you make the most of all the good things that come your way.

I went for a medical check-up today. The results aint positive. Might not be the worst, but neither does it say that i am completely free from e************. Will only know the results the following Monday. Havent broken down yet, coz i know there isnt any point in crying right now. Saving the tears for worse times.

I have decided a part of my dilemma. A teeny-weeny part of it all but it is a good start. I believe it will be a good decision in the long run.