I wont say that what she said is the entire truth. I guess it was that guy's comment that made the entire post altogether touching. Because when someone loves you with all their heart, sometimes even that is not enough to make things work. Sometimes, the mistakes of the past come haunting you back, maybe you arent able to forgive, maybe everything that has brought it to what it is today is keeping you back from giving her that one more chance. Or it might even be that things have changed. That you dont love her, or that you feel the circumstances arent right. You might be afraid to mess things up this one more time and rather not have a chance right now.
And she probably understands that, whatever the reason is. She cant promise to wait for you, because you cant promise her the same. And even if both mutually agree to wait for the other, what is there to guarantee everything will eventually fall into place? She very well understands, perhaps it is just her heart that hasnt come to terms with all this yet. But she will, gradually. Just like how her heart couldnt take all the let-downs, excuses, everything that she had to face post break-up.
You and her may have been very much in love with each other at one point. And it might seem like no one else in the world could ever replace him in her eyes. That might or might not be the case. She can not tell for sure for she does not have the power to look into the future. But what she can be sure is that, he will always have a special place in her heart just like how she will always have a special place in his heart. And perhaps, one day if the time and circumstances are right, and they happen to meet each other again and fall in love all over, then it would mean that their love was meant to be. And even if it wasnt meant to be, she will always look back on the memories that she had treasured so many years ago, and be grateful that she had at least had the opportunity to know how it feels to love in this life.
Someone who really loves you would not let you be the undignified one.
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Ya, my point is that what she said is not really true. She is saying that if a girl is willing to sacrifice so much for you, you should appreciate her. But then I realised that love is not always enough to make things work. No matter how much you are willing to put in.
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